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How to make a great care package for a friend studying abroad

04 Friday Sep 2015

Posted by ejridener in college, DIY, Friends, Life, student, Study Abroad, Travel, Uncategorized

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art, bookmarks, care package, College, DIY, France, friends, Grenoble, homemade, ideas, knitting, Music, peanut butter, study abroad

*Disclaimer: I’ve been waiting to post this until I knew my friend had opened the care package, as I didn’t want to take the chance she would see this.

It’s always nice to be a fun and caring friend.

That being said, a friend of mine is embarking on a study abroad program to Grenable, France from August 2015 to June 2016. I’m going to miss her to pieces as will the other two people in our immediate friend group and I decided to make sure she never forgets any of us.

So my friends and I brainstormed a care package and I put it all together.

I had no plans to post about it seeing as this was between the four of us and not for the purpose of being something put up on the interwebs but during the brainstorming phase I had a hard time finding good ideas on the web. I wanted to give people a look at something you can put together, and not break your already fragile wallet, that your friend will not only appreciate but also get great use out of.

At first, this was supposed to be more of a “Things you probably over looked when packing” box but it morphed into a practical and personal care package. A small note to start: all of these items fit into a Recollections Memory Box that can be picked up at Michael’s craft stores for $4-$6.

1.A jump drive
I bought a 16 GB jump drive while doing my back to school shopping and put some music and videos on it for my friend’s viewing and listening pleasure. I separated everything into folders because some of the videos were meant only for when she missed home i.e. Pure Michigan ads I saved from YouTube. For the music, I just took from my iTunes songs I figured she had never heard because where’s the fun in listening to a secret jump drive if you know all the tunes?

A screenshot of some of the songs that made it on the jump drive.

A screenshot of some of the songs that made it on the jump drive.

2.Scarves
I am a knitter and I’m not ashamed. I love to make scarves and have a box full of them seeing as I don’t sell them but continue to make them; let’s just say Christmas is a cakewalk for me. Because she’ll be in a region of France that does get a cold winter, though nowhere near as cold as Michigan, I put in one warm infinity scarf that I finger knitted (if you don’t know what that is click here) and one fashion black lace scarf. Putting in the scarves added practicality and a personal touch seeing as I made them myself.

3.Toiletries
This is one of the more practical parts of the care package. All of the following are travel size items: shampoo, conditioner, make-up remover wipes, bottle of hand sanitizer three packs of Kleenex and a first aid kit. Mostly we just wanted to make sure she had some basic supplies until she settles in especially seeing as she goes to Paris first for a few days and then she goes to her host family. The first aid kit was more because you can never be too prepared and it was tiny.

4.A Notebook
It’s the size of a Composition notebook and the same brand but it’s a more plastic-like cover rather than the cardboard because we needed it to be flexible enough to fit in the box. It could be a travel journal, school notebook, planner, etc.

5.Pens
You can never have too many pens, especially when you’re in college. Enough said.

6.Sony Headphones
If you’re like me and go through headphones like a runner goes through socks (what can I say? I like my music loud) then having a spare set is always necessary. I’ve been using Sony ear buds since I my first iPod’s headphones crapped out back in 2007. They are on the cheap side ($10) and the sound is great seeing as I normally go through them every six-nine months.

7.Ricola
We all get sick at some point during a year time span so of course I included her preferred brand of cough drops. Fun fact: I sent her a very odd Facebook message in order to find out her preferences for certain things I wanted to include such as “Halls or Ricola?” and “EOS or Burt’s Bees?” which leads us to the next items.

8.Burt’s Bees Lip Balm
I love this stuff and have a tube hidden in all my purses. She preferred Burt’s Bees over EOS so I stuck two tubes of the beeswax lip balm into the box. Not going to lie, I was tempted to keep them.

9.Basic School Supplies
Glue sticks, notecards, pack of paperclips, a Post-It cube, crayons (Crayola because they are our childhood), Wite-Out and tape because let’s face it, she probably forgot the basic stuff when worrying about her laptop, charger, clothes, and Nintendo DS.

10.Peanut Butter-y Goodness
She had done a six week program in May and June 2015 so she had an idea about the snack situation in France. Being from the United States, we have a lot of different chocolate, nutty, delicious candies. I had asked if there was any candy, in general, that she couldn’t get in France that she loved and she said mostly it was anything that had peanut butter in them. As a disclaimer, I would like to point out she wasn’t saying you can’t buy peanut butter items anywhere in France but it just wasn’t common. To solve said problem I bought a bag of peanut butter M&Ms and a bag of Reese’s Miniature cups (Not the newer super small ones but the ones individually wrapped and the circumference is close the size of a quarter) and we plan to send her more Reese’s as the year goes on because we’re good friends.

11.Bookmarks
Nothing says we love you like taking the time to make something from scratch. I handmade a bookmark that she could use for textbooks, notebooks or novels.

And there you have it! A care package for someone going to France for nearly an entire year. One thing to keep in mind is how they are traveling. I asked multiple times if she would be putting the box into her checked or carry-on luggage because that makes a huge difference in what you can and cannot put into the package. Even though I know she was putting it into her checked luggage, I still tried keeping all liquids until 3oz and nothing too suspicious which is why I didn’t buy green tea in a thin plastic tube at the Michigan Renaissance Festival due to its’ physical similarity to marijuana. I didn’t want her bag to get riffled through and that box, which is sealed with packing tape, to get broke open.

30-day writing challenge: Day 27

28 Sunday Jun 2015

Posted by ejridener in Challenge, College, Food, Life, student, Travel, Uncategorized

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challenge, chef, College, cooking, favorite, Food, french cuisine, organization, personal, student, travel, writing

Day 27: Conversely, write about something that’s kicking ass right now.

Anytime my parents leave town, instead of being a stereotypical college student living off ramen and frozen dinners, I cook for myself like a “real” adult. I’ve mastered a lemon garlic with rosemary roasted chicken, made up my own mashed redskin potato recipe and didn’t give myself food poisoning when cooking myself a full Thanksgiving dinner.

Since November my parents have gone on three trips, one of which lasted a month, and each time I’ve survived off my 22-year-old’s skills in the kitchen. I’ve never minded trying new things mostly because no one else was here to see my possible failure. The things that turned out well I would make for my parents when they got home admittedly to show off.

The croque monsieur I just made tonight.

The croque monsieur I just made tonight.

Beginning in May, I was on summer break from school! Being home more meant I wanted to do something constantly, like knitting or writing challenges, so I’ve began cooking more instead of my parents doing it. I’m not saying I do most of it but I’m definitely doing more than I used to.

And I’m freaking loving it.

Just an hour ago I made my dad and I some croque monsieur for dinner. The other day I made amazing wraps from left over chicken breast, avocado, Gouda cheese, roma tomatoes and green onions. I also made a colorful and delicious pasta primavera last week that I could have eaten until I burst it was so good.

I’ve essentially become the college equivalent of an untrained, unqualified chef.

One of my favorite things to make is the above-mentioned roasted chicken which I stuff full of garlic, lemon wedges and rosemary then sprinkle garlic and rosemary olive oil on top. I usually pair it with either lemon garlic redskin potatoes or string beans with slivered almonds.

The beginning stages of my lemon garlic redskin potatoes.

The beginning stages of my lemon garlic redskin potatoes.

It’s all easier than it sounds too. I started my recipe folder with Googling things I wanted to make or some healthier options I wanted to stash away. I keep them in a three-ring binder and have everything separated by category. I highly suggest anyone does this whether they cook or plan to in the future that way you have a reference at the ready instead of searching through the Internet looking for something to cook.

Seriously, go look for stuff to cook and save them!

30-day writing challenge: Day 25

26 Friday Jun 2015

Posted by ejridener in Challenge, Family, History, Travel, Uncategorized

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cabin, challenge, Civil War, cliffhanger, death, England, fog, history, Ireland, magic, travel, united states, witch, writing

Day 25: Think of any word, search it on Google Images. Write something inspired by the 11th image.

I wrote a cliffhanger and it turned into the longest challenge post I’ve written. The word was “mystic” and here is the 11th image off Google Images:Mystic-foggy-evening

I’d spent most of my life avoiding this place.

Death had a funny way of tricking you into taking the wrong turn and summoning you at the time it deems fit. As I rowed closer to the secluded island cabin I’d been running from since my early teens I realized no matter how many routes I took to hide from this place, the monster in the maze always finds you.

I’d received a letter from my grandmother’s attorney three weeks ago alerting me of her death and the time and place where her will would be read. I held strong to the hope she had forgotten about me and left this eerie nightmare to one of the cousins I’d been warned to stay away from.

But it seemed her mind had been set on me becoming the eighth generation of Fallos women to own the little wood cabin only accessible by boat.

“I need a motor on this thing.” I groaned as I continued through the fog. Every once in a while the moon would peak through the clouds to give me a clear view of my surroundings but I was mostly relying on my iPhone’s GPS. The moon shone through once more and I turned to see the shore in front of the cabin a few yards away. I blew the strand of hair out of my face to stop it from further tickling my nose and flexed my hands around the oars.

My grandmother was eccentric to put it mildly. She hated technology and anything remotely mechanical. She never upgraded from a row boat because she believed the rowing helped keep her young and in shape. She never wired the cabin because she feared the government would use the electricity to spy on her.

I really wouldn’t doubt that though. We were never a normal family.

Our ancestors were burned at the stake hundreds of years ago in England. Surviving family members would move all around what is now known as the United Kingdom and Ireland but each time we always lost one to a torch’s kiss. It wasn’t until the 1770s when the Fallos finally moved to the United States that we stopped burning. But it came at a price.

Some say the price was cheap but I say it was steep.

We were witches; at least the females were. Though I prefer the term wiccan because it sounds much nicer and people don’t question it as much.

As unbelievable as it sounds, my great-great-great-great-great-great-grandmother made a deal with George Washington; assistance of an otherworldly nature that cannot be combated for free passage and living in seclusion in the US. To this day, my family is called on during wartime to “fix” the war. Except that one time my great grandmother over-chanted a curse meant to squash the Civil War in its’ early days. She was reprimanded by being forced to serve as a healer during the Battle of Gettysburg so she would see what she had done. From that point forward each of the women in our family tried running from fate but always ended up plunked right back on this fog-infested body of water rowing toward this antique of a home.

And I was no different.

I’d gone to university and become a small business owner all without the help of magic. I held to the hope of “if you don’t use it, you lose it” being applied to my magic. Instead it would spark if not used regularly. Once, I hadn’t used it in eight months and all it took was slight frustration over our Wi-Fi connection at my store. Next thing I know, feds are crawling all over my town posing as members of the United States Geological Survey and telling everyone the sudden bursting of every window in town was due to an abrupt earthquake. They even passed out pamphlets on what to do when earthquakes strike.

I jolted forward and floated forward a few feet. I flicked on one of my flashlights and turned to see the rickety dock right behind me. I had gone right into one of the posts while lost in my thoughts.

After getting the boat into position and tied to a post I grabbed the bag full of lanterns and insect killers and thudded along the dock to the muddy bank. The flashlight guided me along a mismatched stone pathway leading to the front door and I spied the different plants lining the way. Angelica root, lavender, thyme and silverweed to name a few were overgrown. I can’t imagine what the garden behind the cabin looks like.

I stopped when I reached the half-rotted porch. It seems my grandmother had stopped caring about safety at her tender age of 98. I toed the first step and was relieved when I felt the buzz of magic shoot up my foot and fizzle in my calf. So she hadn’t lost her mind after all. She must have reinforced every board holding this place together. I bet even the thinnest of boards could hold a bulldozer.

I stepped onto the first step, stopped and eyed my surroundings. This seems too easy.

I took another step and smiled. There it was.

My family didn’t believe in keys to lock your house; they believed in curses. I had figured my grandmother would have placed it at the first step but instead she put it on the fourth and final step. The power of it felt like standing in front of an open oven from the second step.

The third? I imagine this is what the interior of an active volcano feels like.

I slipped a Swiss Army knife out of my pocket and pricked my finger. Curses like these only stood down if a blood relation was there to pacify it and this was the quickest way to prove it. I fought the urge to curl my hand into my body away from the heat and placed my bloodied forefinger to the fourth step. The result was nearly instantaneous and I felt a refreshing cool wash over me with an after taste of eucalyptus.

I pocket the knife and wiped my hand on my jeans and continued up onto the porch. Various chimes, wilted flowers and talismans decorated most of the space except a clear path to the solid wood front door. I walked forward and stopped myself before opening the door.

After 30 years of running, I was finally walking back into my personal hell of seclusion and magic.

I took a deep breath, twisted the handle and opened the door. I closed my eyes even though I knew I wouldn’t be able to see inside the dark cabin. The smell of dried herbs and spoiled potions assaulted my nose and I shuddered.

I took a deep breath, opened my eyes and looked straight into the abyss. Slowly, I rose my flashlight and gasped…

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